In the ever-evolving landscape of sexual wellness, a new wave of activists are challenging norms, amplifying marginalized voices, and redefining what it means to experience pleasure. From the intersections of disability and sexuality to the complexities of trauma and healing, these individuals are at the forefront of a more inclusive...
People have a lot of opinions about period sex, and we’re here to make space for it via an entire blog for your reading pleasure. Sex on your period can be nourishing, connective, and deeply satisfying. Your body is already doing something extraordinary during menstruation. So why not...
Between sweat-drenched sheets, the nonstop pressure to be on, and the all-too-familiar burnout of peak vacation season, summer may not always feel that sexy. We’re offering you a reframe to change things up a bit: what if this summer was your permission to take things slower, experiment as...
There are days when the world feels too loud to even hear yourself. In those moments, intimacy can be deprioritized and feel so far away. Obviously we aren’t able to give solutions to the current state of things, or share solutions to “fix” all that you may be...
We’ve rounded up 30 movies to get you in the mood and take advantage of these warmer nights. Our picks are sensual, chaotic, surreal, and sexy in a deep-gaze-sort-of-way. These are perfect to watch alone, with a lover, a group of friends, or someone who doesn’t know you’re crushing yet....
There are seasons, months, weeks, days, and hours when showing up for yourself feels intuitive. Your mornings are slow, your breath is steady. You know what you need, and you offer it freely. Then, there are seasons where you feel like a stranger in your own body: disconnected,...
Ever wondered why intimacy feels easy with some people and completely awkward with others? Our attachment style, an early emotional blueprint, shapes how we crave, connect, and experience pleasure. It doesn’t just affect feelings! It affects how we desire. Psychologists John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth coined the...
You’ve probably heard about breathwork before from a yoga class, while scrolling through TikTok, or from that one friend who swore it changed everything for them. If the term feels a little vague or woo woo (we know goop is often covering the topic), here’s all it is:...
Somewhere between digital dopamine loops and DMs decaying on read, we forgot that dating doesn’t always need to take place through a screen. Forbes recently reported that 79% of Gen Z feel “dating app burnout - citing emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion from using apps like Tinder and Bumble”. The...
Hookup culture used to strictly follow a tired script: don’t catch feelings, don’t talk too much, and definitely don’t ask too many questions. Gen Z is tossing that playbook in favor of something softer, smarter, and far more satisfying. Honestly? We love to see it. Across socials and...
Dating can feel like trying to flirt in a language you were never taught, and if you’re neurodivergent, dating culture can feel impossibly loud, unclear, or even exhausting. Let’s be very clear about a few things: you’re not behind, your needs are valid, and your nervous system deserves...
Pleasure doesn’t need to be complicated, expensive, or reserved for when you finally have time. It can exist in small details and low pressure moments. Our list of accessible pleasure practices is for anyone craving connection, curiosity, and low-key joy. Rather than focusing on “doing it right”, we...
You’ve probably talked about turn-ons, fantasies, and safe words… but have you talked about credit card debt or how you really feel when the check comes? Money talk doesn’t have to feel transactional. When approached with care and curiosity, it can be as tender as pillow talk and...
There’s something so special, so magnetic, so motivating about springtime. Suddenly, you're emboldened to rearrange furniture, scrub the floors, toss out expired goods in the pantry - but what if your sensual being got a similar level of attention? We aren’t here to talk about optimizing. We’re all...
Welcome to the Future of Flirtation Flirting has evolved from passing notes in class to swiping right. Now, we’re entering a whole new dimension of teasing, courting, wooing - whatever you call your game. AI, virtual reality, and holograms are shaking up the way we explore intimacy....
In the world of intimacy, few things are as personal or as adventurous as creating a replica of your own anatomy. Our Clone-A-Willy and Clone-A-Pussy kits have become a canvas for countless stories. Before we get into it, a little heads-up: what you’re about to read is real....
So your relationship ended, and maybe it was mutual, or messy, or sparked an existential spiral you weren’t expecting. The breakup is real and so is your rebirth: a slow, sparkling evolution back to yourself. It’s time to turn your heartbreak into your own personal renaissance. This is where...
Dating in 2025 is practically an extreme sport. Is it love, a situationship, or just a fleeting connection through shared memes? We've scoured the internet, polled some friends and even eavesdropped on some questionable dates to bring you a guide on modern dating signals, crowdsourced from the curious,...
Sex + Tech = A Love Story for the Ages Sexual innovation has always been ahead of its time. Ancient Romans had stone vibrators and Victorians loved their innovative “personal massagers”. Now, we’re witnessing an era where AI, hyper-personalization, and interactivity are redefining pleasure in ways that would...
Dirty talk is an art, a science and sometimes a skill that feels so hard to grasp. Maybe you want to spice things up but don’t know what to say? There’s good news: dirty talk is 100% attainable through practice and we’re about to make it way less awkward....
Orgasms: They’re powerful, euphoric, sometimes elusive, and always fascinating. Our question is, what’s really going on in our brains when we climax? It turns out, that a full-on neurological symphony is at play. Your hormones, neurotransmitters, and pleasure centers are all working in perfect harmony. Ready for a deep...
Consent is the foundation of any and every intimate encounter. It's about creating a space where everyone feels safe, desired, and excited! According to sex educator and researcher Dr.Read more
Valentine’s Day has spent way too much time catering to couples who argue about where to eat. Meanwhile, you? You’re doing reaaaal good: no shared dessert, no awkwardly receiving droopy flowers, no waiting for someone else to make the night special. Romance starts with you. Let’s make this Valentine’s...
We talk a lot about microdosing many things 🍄, but what about romance 😍? It turns out that seemingly small, intentional gestures can keep relationships feeling revitalized in so many ways without waiting for a big anniversary or Valentine’s Day to come around! While we work on an...
It happens to all of us at some point in our lives. The spark dims and suddenly your fiery love life or relationship feels like it’s lacking the intimacy you used to live for. Stress, burnout, and life’s demands can drain your desire. So, let’s have a little...
Illustrated GIF by Emilia Schettino Let’s get real: relationships are rarely picture-perfect, especially when it comes to intimacy. Maybe you’re into slow dances, but your partner loves dancing solo to techno. Perhaps they want to explore kink, while you’re still figuring out what...
Music has this wild, unspoken ability to set the stage for a moment: whether it’s an exhilarating first date, a lazy afternoon with your babe, or a late-night solo dance party. The perfect playlist doesn’t just fill the silence, it transforms the moment into something much...
We’ve all made resolutions that never make it until the end of February (or honestly January), but what if this year instead of trying to be better, we just tried to feel better? Pleasure, in all its forms, deserves to take a front-row seat in...
🔥 Cozy up under the mistletoe and let the sparks fly with this steamy lineup of holiday films! Whether you're looking for a classic with a seductive twist or a modern rom-com to set the mood, this list has everything you need to keep things merry, bright, and oh-so-spicy. So...
There’s something incredibly irresistible about winter evenings: the kind which stretches out into neverending nights, quiet and slow, an invitation to lean into warmth. ❄️🔥 It’s a season of dualities: craving connection while finding comfort in solitude, bundling up against the cold while...
Thanksgiving isn’t just for turkey. This is your chance to be the whole feast. Forget the “snack” mindset. This year, let’s take it up a notch with playful energy, a touch of sensuality, and plenty of gratitude!
When you’re in the thick of it, when life gets a little too hard and time starts moving fast, it’s easy for the idea of play to feel trivial and a little silly. But psychologists and wellness experts champion play as a...
There’s no reason pleasure shouldn’t be equal, yet that’s often not the case. Many of us have experienced moments where one partner reaches climax while the other is left wanting. This orgasm gap is more common than we'd like to admit and...
We know our audience has already nailed the basics of navigating sexual compatibility (honest communication, experimentation, and respecting boundaries - of course). We want to take it a step further by exploring deeper ways to connect! 🚀 Read more
The ways we communicate shape the form and function of the relationships we hold. Communication is more than just exchanging words; it’s about creating spaces for understanding, connection, and growth. Communication is also informed by our body language, gestures, and other nonverbal cues. Many of us enter relationships...
Meeting ourselves in our bodies means caring for ourselves first. But for many, self-care can feel like a luxury—something reserved for expensive spa days or high-end retreats. Self-care doesn’t have to be an elaborate or costly activity. It can be a creative and intimate practice that fits...
In today’s world, we are constantly surrounded by screens. Whether it's the endless scroll on social media, constant notifications, or the need to be online for work, the digital landscape consumes much of our daily lives. While technology has undoubtedly made life more convenient, accessible, and connected, it...
Many of us are starting to feel that natural urge to bust out the comfies, nest, and prepare our homes for the cozier months ahead. Much like spring cleaning, fall cleaning is the perfect opportunity to declutter, clean, and transition your space into a warm, cozy paradise. And...
So, you met someone this summer and it felt like fireworks: late nights, easy conversations, and that undeniable chemistry. Now that the season is winding down, you might be wondering, “could it be more?” The good (and obvious) news is that it...
It’s time to say it: the final days of summer are among us. Knowing that we’re not the only ones trying to figure out how to make the most of this precious time, we thought of sharing an important brainstorm: flirty activities...
August is almost over — cue summer scaries. We’re grasping at the remnants of summer, trying to fit in trips to the beach and outdoor movie nights, all to stave off the colder weather as long as possible. But what if we...
When it comes to our DIY Molding Kits, they are more than just a tube filled with raw materials and a set of clear, easy-to-follow instructions. They are your gateway to creating personalized sex toys right at home! Naturally, this sparks a lot of curiosity and...
Erotic alchemy is where sexuality and herbalism intertwine to create a powerful, sensual experience: combining the wisdom of ancient herbal traditions with the mysteries of your own desires. Let’s dive into the history and practices of...
In our hyper-connected world, where every swipe and click can bring us closer to another human, something else is connecting us too—our planet. The concept of eco-sexuality is about embracing eco-friendly practices in our sex lives and understanding that our intimate moments...
Wedding season is upon us, and while it’s often a time of celebration and love, it can also be a time of financial and planning stress. From parties to wedding gifts, the costs can quickly add up. But with a bit of creativity, community and some DIY magic,...
Whether you're jet-setting to a tropical island or exploring a bustling cobblestoned city, incorporating a little extra something something into your travel plans can transform your trip into an unforgettable trip. Here are a couple ideas to sprinkle into your next getaway...
Pride Month is coming to an end, but let’s be real—Pride is all year. Many places also hold events in October, and celebrations happen throughout the summer. Pride is political; it is a vibrant celebration, a testament to our resilience, diversity of experience, and the unyielding pursuit of...
It’s 2024, people. Gone are the days of just bar-hopping and strippers. Gone are the days of penis-shaped micro-plastic-ridden straws and yoni-shaped balloons. Not saying these gags are totally out, but let’s expand our genital-shaped horizons, shall we?
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