We know our audience has already nailed the basics of navigating sexual compatibility (honest communication, experimentation, and respecting boundaries - of course). We want to take it a step further by exploring deeper ways to connect! 🚀

Emotional connection fuels sexual compatibility. Strengthen it by engaging in activities that encourage and foster closeness. Longer discussions, and spending real quality time outside of the bedroom will do just that.

Recommended listening: “Where Should We Begin with Esther Perel” podcast

Intentional exploration means going beyond casual experimentation by setting aside specific dates for exploring. Focus on trying new things everyone is excited and curious about, but with clarity and a solid check-in afterwards.

Recommended reading: “Cozy Indoor Activities for Couples” + “How to Keep Things Hot in a Long-Term Relationship”

Mindful pleasure can be introduced into your sex life. Being present in the moment, meaning noticing sensations, your partner’s body language, and emotional signals as they arise. 

Recommended reading: “Mind over matter: Practicing sexual mindfulness”

Revisit boundaries regularly as your relationship evolves. Plan regular conversations or check-ins about where everyone in the relationship stands and discuss any shifts in preferences.

Recommended reading: “Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships”

Sexual compatibility is about staying curious, continuing to evolve as you grow and change, and nurture your connection(s). Sexual compatibility shouldn’t be static; it’s an ever-changing and fun landscape you can explore..