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We’ve all made resolutions that never make it until the end of February (or honestly January), but what if this year instead of trying to be better, we just tried to feel better?

Pleasure, in all its forms, deserves to take a front-row seat in your 2025 self-care lineup. No matter what your romantic situation is, we see all of you and are here to shout that a huge part of pleasure includes connecting with your body while enjoying the experience. Now, let’s talk through some pleasure resolutions that might actually hang on! 😉

Touch yourself more!

Masturbation is a wonderful form of self-love. It’s mood-lifting and honestly one of the best stress relievers out there. Your body wants to feel good, so let it. 💗

Activity: Light candles, put on sultry music, or wear something that makes you feel good (including nothing at all). Does it feel like it’s hard to get in the mood? Start slow. Even running a warm bath and exploring non-sexual touch might help reignite a spark. ✨

Go for honest dirty talk! 

Communicating about sex can feel awkward, but of course we, over here at Clone-a-Willy, will be the first ones to tell you it shouldn’t be. The more you talk through likes, dislikes, and new things to try, the easier it gets. Perhaps it takes some time for some topics or ideas to land, but that’s part of the fun.

Activity: Set up a “no-pressure” chat with your partner or a journal date with yourself. Make a game out of it by listing three things you’d like to try this year and if you’re with a partner, ask them to do the same. See what overlaps or inspires you to, y’know, get creative. 🔥

Play with new toys! 

If your current collection is starting to feel... uninspired, maybe it's time for a little upgrade. Introducing new toys and tools can breathe fresh life into solo and partnered play.

Activity: Our Clone-A-Willy kits lets you create body-safe replicas of your (or your partner's) favorite body parts. It’s equal parts hilarious and sexy, perfect for long-distance couples or anyone who just likes a good DIY project.

Learn something new about your body!

Bodies are weird and wonderful. There’s always something new to discover, and we’re betting high that you’re curious about a different type of stimulation or interested in erogenous zones you’ve overlooked. 🕵️

Activity: Follow sex-positive educators on Instagram (like @sexwithemily or @thesexed) and see what resonates. Reading up on sexual health or trying guided exercises can unlock a whole new appreciation for your body. 🤓

Embrace the power of fantasy.

In case this has ever been or is your current perception, fantasy isn’t just for books or other people. You have every right to imagine a sexy scenario or dive into erotic stories making yourself the main character! Fantasy is a low-pressure way to explore desire, and there’s no right or wrong way to engage. 🪄

Activity: Write down or draw out fantasies as they come to you. You don’t have to share them with anyone unless you want to. Apps like Dipsea or audio erotica playlists are great places to explore.

Are you ready to prioritize pleasure?

2025 is calling and it’s asking you to care for yourself in ways that feel good. Whether it’s creating a Clone-A-Willy, trying new toys, or just getting a little more comfortable in your own skin, the goal is pleasure without pressure, friends! 🫂

Follow Clone-A-Willy on Instagram for tips, laughs, and maybe a lil nudge toward that kit you’ve been eyeing. 👀