We donāt often talk about the comedown after intimacy. This could result from a string of summer hookups, seemingly endless dating app scrolling, or pouring yourself into everyone elseās needs. You might notice the fog, the irritability, or even a crash out. This is called post-sensuality burnout and youāre...
Iāve always been that person who rearranges my living space at least once a month. Growing up, Iād push furniture around until it finally felt right. Lamps, chairs, tchotchkes, everything had to move until the room had the vibe I needed. Even now, I catch myself shifting things around...
In the ever-evolving landscape of sexual wellness, a new wave of activists are challenging norms, amplifying marginalized voices, and redefining what it means to experience pleasure.Ā From the intersections of disability and sexuality to the complexities of trauma and healing, these individuals are at the forefront of a more inclusive...
People have a lot of opinions about period sex, and weāre here to make space for it via an entire blog for your reading pleasure. Sex on your period can be nourishing, connective, and deeply satisfying. Your body is already doing something extraordinary during menstruation. So why not...
Between sweat-drenched sheets, the nonstop pressure to be on, and the all-too-familiar burnout of peak vacation season, summer may not always feel that sexy. Weāre offering you a reframe to change things up a bit: what if this summer was your permission to take things slower, experiment as...
There are days when the world feels too loud to even hear yourself. In those moments, intimacy can be deprioritized and feel so far away.Ā Obviously we arenāt able to give solutions to the current state of things, or share solutions to āfixā all that you may be...
Weāve rounded up 30 movies to get you in the mood and take advantage of these warmer nights. Our picks are sensual, chaotic, surreal, and sexy in a deep-gaze-sort-of-way.Ā These are perfect to watch alone, with a lover, a group of friends, or someone who doesnāt know youāre crushing yet....
There are seasons, months, weeks, days, and hours when showing up for yourself feels intuitive. Your mornings are slow, your breath is steady. You know what you need, and you offer it freely. Then, there are seasons where you feel like a stranger in your own body: disconnected,...
Ever wondered why intimacy feels easy with some people and completely awkward with others? Our attachment style, an early emotional blueprint, shapes how we crave, connect, and experience pleasure. It doesnāt just affect feelings! It affects how we desire. Psychologists John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth coined the...
Youāve probably heard about breathwork before from a yoga class, while scrolling through TikTok, or from that one friend who swore it changed everything for them. If the term feels a little vague or woo woo (we know goop is often covering the topic), hereās all it is:...
Somewhere between digital dopamine loops and DMs decaying on read, we forgot that dating doesnāt always need to take place through a screen. Forbes recently reported that 79% of GenāÆZ feel ādating app burnout - citing emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion from using apps like Tinder and Bumbleā. The...
Hookup culture used to strictly follow a tired script: donāt catch feelings, donāt talk too much, and definitely donāt ask too many questions. Gen Z is tossing that playbook in favor of something softer, smarter, and far more satisfying. Honestly? We love to see it. Across socials and...
Dating can feel like trying to flirt in a language you were never taught, and if youāre neurodivergent, dating culture can feel impossibly loud, unclear, or even exhausting. Letās be very clear about a few things: youāre not behind, your needs are valid, and your nervous system deserves...
Pleasure doesnāt need to be complicated, expensive, or reserved for when you finally have time. It can exist in small details and low pressure moments.Ā Our list of accessible pleasure practices is for anyone craving connection, curiosity, and low-key joy. Rather than focusing on ādoing it rightā, we...
Youāve probably talked about turn-ons, fantasies, and safe wordsā¦ but have you talked about credit card debt or how you really feel when the check comes? Money talk doesnāt have to feel transactional. When approached with care and curiosity, it can be as tender as pillow talk and...
Thereās something so special, so magnetic, so motivating about springtime. Suddenly, you're emboldened to rearrange furniture, scrub the floors, toss out expired goods in the pantry - but what if your sensual being got a similar level of attention? We arenāt here to talk about optimizing. Weāre all...
Welcome to the Future of Flirtation Flirting has evolved from passing notes in class to swiping right. Now, weāre entering a whole new dimension of teasing, courting, wooing - whatever you call your game.Ā AI, virtual reality, and holograms are shaking up the way we explore intimacy....
In the world of intimacy, few things are as personal or as adventurous as creating a replica of your own anatomy. Our Clone-A-Willy and Clone-A-Pussy kits have become a canvas for countless stories. Before we get into it, a little heads-up: what youāre about to read is real....
So your relationship ended, and maybe it was mutual, or messy, or sparked an existential spiral you werenāt expecting. The breakup is real and so is your rebirth: a slow, sparkling evolution back to yourself. Itās time to turn your heartbreak into your own personal renaissance. This is where...
Dating in 2025 is practically an extreme sport. Is it love, a situationship, or just a fleeting connection through shared memes?Ā We've scoured the internet, polled some friends and even eavesdropped on some questionable dates to bring you a guide on modern dating signals, crowdsourced from the curious,...
Sex + Tech = A Love Story for the Ages Sexual innovation has always been ahead of its time. Ancient Romans had stone vibrators and Victorians loved their innovative āpersonal massagersā. Now, weāre witnessing an era where AI, hyper-personalization, and interactivity are redefining pleasure in ways that would...
Dirty talk is an art, a science and sometimes a skill that feelsĀ so hard to grasp. Maybe you want to spice things up but donāt know what to say? Thereās good news: dirty talk is 100% attainable through practice and weāre about to make it way less awkward....
Orgasms: Theyāre powerful, euphoric, sometimes elusive, and always fascinating. Our question is, whatās really going on in our brains when we climax? It turns out, that a full-on neurological symphony is at play. Your hormones, neurotransmitters, and pleasure centers are all working in perfect harmony. Ready for a deep...
Consent is the foundation of any and every intimate encounter. It's about creating a spaceĀ where everyone feels safe, desired, and excited! According to sex educator and researcher Dr.Read more
Valentineās Day has spent way too much time catering to couples who argue about where to eat. Meanwhile, you? Youāre doing reaaaal good: no shared dessert, no awkwardly receiving droopy flowers, no waiting for someone else to make the night special. Romance starts with you. Letās make this Valentineās...
We talk a lot about microdosing many things š, but what about romance š? It turns out that seemingly small, intentional gestures can keep relationships feeling revitalized in so many ways without waiting for a big anniversary or Valentineās Day to come around! While we work on an...
It happens to all of us at some point in our lives. The spark dims and suddenly your fiery love life or relationship feels like itās lacking the intimacy you used to live for. Stress, burnout, and lifeās demands can drain your desire. So, letās have a little...
Illustrated GIF byĀ Emilia Schettino Ā Letās get real: relationships are rarely picture-perfect, especially when it comes to intimacy. Maybe youāre into slow dances, but your partner loves dancing solo to techno. Perhaps they want to explore kink, while youāre still figuring out what...
Music has this wild, unspoken ability to set the stage for a moment:Ā whether itās an exhilarating first date, a lazy afternoon with your babe, or a late-night solo dance party. The perfect playlist doesnāt just fill the silence, it transforms the moment into something much...
Weāve all made resolutions that never make it until the end of February (or honestly January), but what if this year instead of trying to be better, we just tried to feel better? Pleasure, in all its forms, deserves to take a front-row seat in...
š„ Cozy up under the mistletoe and let the sparks fly with this steamy lineup of holiday films! Whether you're looking for a classic with a seductive twist or a modern rom-com to set the mood, this list has everything you need to keep things merry, bright, and oh-so-spicy. So...
Thereās something incredibly irresistible about winter evenings: the kindĀ which stretchesĀ out into neverending nights, quiet and slow, an invitation to lean into warmth. āļøš„ Itās a season of dualities: craving connection while finding comfort in solitude, bundling up against the cold while...
Thanksgiving isnātĀ just for turkey. This is your chance to be the whole feast. Forget the āsnackā mindset. This year, letās take it up a notch with playful energy, a touch of sensuality, and plenty of gratitude!
When youāre in the thick of it, when life gets a little too hard and time starts moving fast, itās easy for the idea of play to feel trivial and a little silly. But psychologists and wellness experts champion play as a...
Thereās no reason pleasure shouldnāt be equal, yet thatās often not the case. Many of us have experienced moments where one partner reaches climax while the other is left wanting. This orgasm gap is more common than we'd like to admit and...
We know our audience has already nailed the basics of navigating sexual compatibility (honest communication, experimentation, and respecting boundaries - of course). We want to take it a step further by exploring deeper ways to connect!Ā š Read more
The ways we communicate shape the form and function of the relationships we hold. Communication is more than just exchanging words; itās about creating spaces for understanding, connection, and growth. Communication is also informed by our body language, gestures, and other nonverbal cues. Many of us enter relationships...
Meeting ourselves in our bodies means caring for ourselves first. But for many, self-care can feel like a luxuryāsomething reserved for expensive spa days or high-end retreats. Self-care doesnāt have to be an elaborate or costly activity. It can be a creative and intimate practice that fits...
In todayās world, we are constantly surrounded by screens. Whether it's the endless scroll on social media, constant notifications, or the need to be online for work, the digital landscape consumes much of our daily lives. While technology has undoubtedly made life more convenient, accessible, and connected, it...
Many of us are starting to feel that natural urge to bust out the comfies, nest, and prepare our homes for the cozier months ahead. Much like spring cleaning, fall cleaning is the perfect opportunity to declutter, clean, and transition your space into a warm, cozy paradise. And...
So, you met someone this summer and it felt like fireworks: late nights, easy conversations, and that undeniable chemistry. Now that the season is winding down, you might be wondering, ācould it be more?ā The good (and obvious) news is that it...
Itās time to say it: the final days of summer are among us. Knowing that weāre not the only ones trying to figure out how to make the most of this precious time, we thought of sharing an important brainstorm: flirty activities...
August is almost over ā cue summer scaries. Weāre grasping at the remnants of summer, trying to fit in trips to the beach and outdoor movie nights, all to stave off the colder weather as long as possible. But what if we...
Ā When it comes to our DIY Molding Kits, they are more than just a tube filled with raw materials and a set of clear, easy-to-follow instructions. They are your gateway to creating personalized sex toys right at home! Naturally, this sparks a lot of curiosity and...
Erotic alchemy is where sexuality and herbalism intertwine to create a powerful, sensual experience: combining the wisdom of ancient herbal traditions with the mysteries of your own desires.Ā Letās dive into the history and practices of...
First, I want to share the whyās of buying ethically. Itās one thing to name it, but the reasons we are searching for this option suggest we care...
In our hyper-connected world, where every swipe and click can bring us closer to another human, something else is connecting us tooāour planet. The concept of eco-sexuality is about embracing eco-friendly practices in our sex lives and understanding that our intimate moments...
Wedding season is upon us, and while itās often a time of celebration and love, it can also be a time of financial and planning stress. From parties to wedding gifts, the costs can quickly add up. But with a bit of creativity, community and some DIY magic,...
Whether you're jet-setting to a tropical island or exploring a bustling cobblestoned city, incorporating a little extra something something into your travel plans can transform your trip into an unforgettable trip. Here are a couple ideas to sprinkle into your next getaway...
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